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Thursday, March 7, 2013

See My Ability Not My Disability


On March 1, 2013, my little family had the pleasure of attending an event at the Oak Lawn Children’s Museum called “See My Ability, Not My Disability.”  The evening was a celebration of our special children.  This event was organized by Holly Simon, the mother of a Down’s Syndrome child, who is also the person to thank for Holly Days, a similar event at the Beverly Arts Center in Chicago.

 

My kids had a great time playing at the museum, as they always do.  Healthy snacks were set up in the party room.  There were vendors set up throughout the second floor.  I’d like to make mention of a few…

 

I Am Who I Am.  This 501(c)(3) charity gives baby blankets, encouragement and support to newly born special children and their families.  An excerpt from the flyer I received: 

 

“…Can you imagine hearing the words, ‘sorry’ after your child was born? Can you imagine the lack of eye contact, the cold room and the feeling of doom?  I endured those moments.  I am here to erase those words from every delivery room.  Nathaniel did and does not deserve an ‘I’m sorry’.  He and the entire special community should be congratulated each and every day.”

 

Amen to that!  Their website is:  www.iam-whoiam.com.

 

One of the authors (Marianne Walsh) of “Epic Mom: Failing Every Day a Little Bit More than You” was there signing copies of the book. The book is a series of anecdotes any parent can relate to, not just those of us in the special community.  This book is available on www.amazon.com or to email for more information epicmombook@gmail.com.

 

Literature from Giant Steps in Lisle, Illinois was on one of the tables.  I’ve heard many wonderful things about this place.  They provide education, therapeutic and recreational services to ASD families and they have been around since 1996.  For more information, go to www.mygiantsteps.org or email gslemmons@mygiantsteps.org.

 

Last but not least – a lovely young lady who happens to have Down’s had a table set up to sell jewelry she had made and was also making jewelry on the spot.  Her name is Kelly Neville.  Her work is beautiful.  I bought one of her bracelets.  Her website is www.specialsparkle.com and she does special orders as well as home parties. 

 

It was a fun evening and a great event.  Holly Simon, thanks for the inspiration! J

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Opening Night Arts Group


Although I'm posting about a holiday show after the holidays, it's never too late to celebrate progress.  Opening Night Arts Group is a theatre company in the South Suburbs of Chicago that donates its proceeds primarily to charity; benefitting a different charity with each show. Sean joined his father and I performing in “Scrooge & Marley” in December.  This is an annual production and the majority of the adult actors reprise their roles every year, so only a few rehearsals are scheduled.  I play Mrs. Cratchit every year and my husband usually plays Mr. Fezziwig and Old Joe, but this year played Marley, who is the narrator in this version.

 Sean had three lines this time around.  All his lines were such that someone could prompt him as he was entering the stage or appropriately ad-lib a prompt. 

 I was concerned initially about the intimate setting of the theater at Trinity College – it is not only small, but also in the round.  I recommended to our friends and family to sit further back.  The stage area is at floor level, not raised.  The front row is literally a few feet away from the actors.  I was afraid he would see someone he knew and break character by either running to them or talking to them. J

 New group and new theater for him, but as usual, the theatre kids were accepting and welcoming.  As usual, his progress never ceases to amaze me.  The arts are truly a beautiful thing for ASD kids.

 

Wednesday, February 13, 2013

Buddy Night at Brother Rice for Special Needs Kids

Buddy night at Brother Rice on the South Side of Chicago for children with special needs, this Friday, February 15th. Click this link for more information:
http://www.brotherrice.org/br-mcauley-buddy-night

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Cavatappi


My husband and I had the rare luxury of a date night and went to Cavatappi at 3020 West 95th Street in Evergreen Park, Illinois. (http://www.cavatappirestaurant.com/)  In a previous incarnation, this restaurant was called Mulchrone’s – Mulchrone’s was where we had our wedding reception almost nine years ago.

 

I went to Cavatappi for a theatre cast party about a year ago.  We had the entire front of the restaurant to ourselves and I enjoyed the food, served banquet-style.  I didn’t drink that night, but they had a comprehensive wine list and my friends enjoyed the chocolate martinis.

 

On our date night, there was a wine tasting going on at the restaurant.  It appears they have a wine tasting about once a month.  It was not separate from the dining room – patrons were encouraged to try some wine, then the sommelier would come around and ask for feedback and to choose another sample for the guests.

 

The meal we had was perfect, no exaggeration.  Italian food is not usually my first choice when we got out because I make a lot of Italian food at home.  When we go out, I usually prefer either something exotic or dishes that are so complicated to make, I wouldn’t bother making them at home.  However, there’s something to be said for simple dishes done very well with fresh, quality ingredients.  That was the case at Cavatappi.  Our salads were perfect – my husband had a basic house salad with a balsamic vinaigrette and my salad was mixed greens with thinly sliced red and white beets, big pieces of goat cheese, almonds and a Dijon vinaigrette.  We ordered basic entrees that were done very well – I had ravioli and my husband ordered lasagna.  For dessert, I had tiramisu and my husband had chocolate chip cheesecake, both fantastic.

 

I may bring my special needs kids to this restaurant.  There are items on the menu my kids would eat, bread, fried things, chicken, cheesy pasta, dessert (there are gluten-free options for those who go that route). It’s not a super-quiet restaurant, which would be a good thing, and there’s not much in the way of breakables for the kids to knock over.  The tables are also far apart enough that I wouldn’t have to worry about the kids grabbing things off other people’s tables or knocking their drinks over. J